Would You Rather?

I bought this cool new book that we will be using on some Wednesday nights to spark conversations. The book is loaded with "would you rather" questions that make you decide between extreme choices to see what you really value and or how you process your thoughts. Here are a couple I wanted to ask and see if I would get any responses for.

1) Would you rather fail while trying to do something great or never try to do anything great?

2) Would you rather say sorry for something that wasn't your fault or stay angry at someone forever?